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Tuesday, June 3, 2008

The Executive Sauna And Spa

Ladies I am going to talk about an upscale massage parlour and escort agency that existed 17 years ago in the northern suburbs of Johannesburg. This entry is for you and not for the "hot blooded" males out there.

Before I get to the heart of my entry, please allow me to build some foundation here. In the US almost thirty years ago, a lady named Sherry Hite went around to 4,400 women she had never met. She gave them an anonymous questionnaire to fill out. It concerned the most personal details of their sex lives. Each woman was assured that her name and anything identifying her would not be published.

When Sherry got the questionnaires back, she published a book called The Hite Report. It became a best seller. What fascinated me most was the section dealing with women who were unfaithful to their boyfriend or their husband. What did a woman look for in a man to cheat with. Was it a large male organ? No. Was it the ability to last 4 hours in bed? No. Much to my surprise this unhappy unfaithful woman was looking for a man who would hold her, listen to her, and take her seriously as a person.

Before I arrived in South Africa in April, 1990, I had lived in Los Angeles. I was living with a lady who was a genius and "a perfect 10" in looks. Her name was Antonieta, She was magic. She promised me that she would follow me to Africa. She never did.

I found myself in a new country. I was alone and sad. I started visiting the Executive Sauna and Spa. It was an elegant venue complete with a huge swimming pool, jacuzzi, sauna and an incredible bar. The girls were all stunniung beauties. The owner was the best. I will not describe her to keep her identity safe. I became one of her clients and evolved into a very close friend.

I started to go there every night after work. The ladies who worked there met customers in the establishment. They also went out on escort calls with the richest and most powerful men in South Africa. I got to be friends with all of the girls who worked there. All of them had professional and responsible positions during the day. Some of the best girls earned more than $100,000 US per year (Tax free, I am sure). Much to my disgust, some of the women were married. Their husbands gave them permission to work as a high-priced sex worker.

What sort of talk did one hear every night at that establishment. Were there lurid descriptions of will sexual trysts? No. Were there descriptions of the male organs of the various South African VIPS? No. Were there any "Happy Hookers" who had incredible orgasms with each customer? No.

The women did no say much about their work.  When pressed they all said something amazing. A good number of the men who hired them at very high prices just wanted them to listen while the men talked to them. Another large group asked for oral sex because their wives would not give them oral sex.

Ladies what is the message here for you? Please talk to your husband or boyfriend. Do not talk at him or around him. And please listen to him. When the lights go out in the bedroom, give him oral sex every now and then.

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